the seige is over

sometimes you are in the midst of a family drama that turns into a family war . You have no idea of any of it until you hear the first shots fired. Usually by then, Its too late.but even if there is family drama , even if there is was among the aunts, in time as long as there's one person who cares enough to try and try again................peace comes to the family..................and family does come first. do not believe all the beer commercial adds telling you to drink wit h your friends. they are after you because you are still insecure. if u are with your bids and not drinking as much as they are. whip.if you are out with your friends and a few ladies come by . One of which can be the lady of your life. you need to be out with the guys. no pack of she wolves comes up to A man sitting with his family. Nor do they???????????????/ Did you ever give it a chance? be a man, Be a whole woman. if you are going to make a mistake. make it on your own terms

welcome home

this is the safest place for a person whouses her brain instead of dulls it on the internet. I tried to use facebook and tweet. while they wrote inane reteric back and forth, I got "lessons " on what was right to say and wrong to say. what farms to build. what rooms to enter....................I guess after all these years as a red hat anda homemaker who planned my day as I saw fit. who created and elated children and parewnts alike. I am not ready to be told how to behave on favebooks or eve e mails. u dont like what I have to say. dont open the e mail but by the same right...dont expect me to listen to you bitch on and on either................so here I am at home. hopefully to entertain you as to thsoe children and men who think I shouls hang on every word out of their mouth..they are not passing me thesecret map to king solomans mines so.....................chill...............